-Invent some kind of mind manipulator
-Few things are more meaningful or compelling to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizzes that supposedly reveal information about yourself, etc.
-Don't be sexually judgmental in any way. One of a woman's worst fears is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out).
-Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing—most women won't respond to a man who can't lead.
-When first approaching a woman or a group of women, she/they tend to get the feeling that this is a scheme to get close to them, that you really just want something from them (like sex). It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want anything from them. Naturally, it's OK to appear interested, but they should feel like you are about to leave at any second.
- Don't try to impress her in any way. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
-In a group setting, don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friends' opinions very highly. Few things matter to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women, so do your best to include everyone.
-To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you; playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that 'I can't believe you just said that' look, do NOT back down, do not say, "Oh, I'm just kidding," or anything like that. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
-As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take any of it seriously by attempting practical answers. Many women lose interest if you take them seriously. It's strange, but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will lose interest very quickly.
-She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what women do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little, and also to find out more about her, all the while building a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later, even if you've kissed her—women are the worst flakes in the world. Don't make it too easy for her; make her work for it a bit. Talk about connections, childhood memories, things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. You have the option to throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending that you're shy or insecure about something. You don't necessarily have to blurt out some huge lie, but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks into you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect. Walk the line between confidence and arrogance, humility and self-deprecation.
-Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don't like to feel that you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards: you can get any girl you want, but you chose HER because she is so special, different, and unique. Yeah, I know.
-Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations, the better.
-Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was 'her fault'. Make it YOUR fault. She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute.- Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets very upset; if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
-Believe your own bullshit. A woman does not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not, because that is the logical thing to do, and most women do not think this way. Rather, she is observing if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If it appears that you do, chances are, she will, too. This is why so many otherwise seemingly intelligent women will stay with a lying, meathead “alpha male” in spite of repeated dishonesty. Speak and act with authority and conviction—your own self-beliefs will eventually impart to the woman.-The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on a lot of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to these men—the ones who have so many other options BECAUSE they practice on a lot of women (and subsequently “love 'em and leave 'em”). That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them—because THOSE are the men that they gravitate to.
-Many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, they don't know what they're talking about, and they will steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. Many women have a very idealized, very false concept of romance built up in their heads, due largely to deceptive media bombardment (refer back to first bullet point). Furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience is the inability to admit these things because they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
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